so you’ve probably been wondering what on earth has happened to me? All one of you (love you, sister!) 😉 i just seemed to drop off the face of the earth. well, let me explain.
as much as i love christmas and the winter (i live in san diego, mind you, so it might not seem just to some of you for me to say i love winter), i must admit that i have a love/hate relationship with it. i’m sure many people can relate that along with whatever reasons you love christmas, there is also a stress that comes with it. for the most part, for me, this stress is bearable — stress like last minute shopping for presents, and then wrapping all those present (my husband does not like to be around me during this time: “no, dear, you canNOT use three different scraps of wrapping paper to wrap that present. and please use the sticker name tags, NOT a black sharpie….fine, you can do it on your dad’s”; forgive me, i’m a perfectionist when it comes to present wrapping). there’s also planning the food menu, shopping for the food, and then cooking said food — including scheduling the cooking times so that everything is done all at the same time. there’s cleaning the house and bathing the dogs, to get ready to have christmas eve dinner at our tiny condo for the first time, and then realizing, “uh oh, gotta do the dishes so we have enough plates to eat on! oh, so this is why people register for china for their wedding presents.” and there’s the splitting the holidays between families (which actually works out for us because it makes the festivities last just that much longer), but that also means cooking more food for another meal (again, not a bad thing at all.) and then, whoops, three days later realizing we forgot to give the dogs their christmas bones. oh well, it’s not like they know any different — any day they receive a bone is christmas to them! so it’s no surprise that we didn’t take our tree down and pack up the decorations until the third weekend in January. but in the end all these stresses are really just little blessings in disguise, more things to be thankful of and for.
what makes me dread the holidays is tax season. if your career is in finances, then you know what i’m talking about. i am the director of finance at the nonprofit i work at. which means: tax season and working overtime. deep down, i really don’t mind it. i would say that i handle stress pretty well. and i love my job — absolutely love my job. but for as much as i love it, i really like to leave when my workday is supposed to be over, go home, cook dinner, and spend time with my family. but every january i have to put that aside and work my little heart out. luckily, this year i’ve been able to take stuff home to work on in the evenings, so i’m able to hang out with my family still.
needless to say, i have not had any ounce of time to type up recipes, much less work on photos for publishing them. (please note the photos is this post were not taken by me, i’m sad to say.) but there is an end in sight. most of my deadlines are tomorrow, the end of the month. and while i’ll still be busy for the first couple weeks in february, i hopefully won’t have to work as much overtime. so my apologies for not posting anything lately. but believe me, i have some pretty yummy stuff waiting in the queue. one of these days, when i have a free weekend or evening, i’ll bust out a bunch of posts. and you just won’t be able to keep up. 🙂
(All photos were taken by Rico Castillero, of people Floresta, the nonprofit I work at, supports in Haiti and the Dominican Republic. Rico and his wife Rachel are also wedding photographers. Check out their website here.)